See Yourself the Way God Sees You

Hey there,

I haven’t been on my blog for a while so I wanted to make a habit that anytime I have some inspiration about God, relationships and fitness, that I will go on here and type whatever flows through me.

I have been listening to Joel Marion’s Podcast – “Born to Impact” and it has really allowed to me to reflect and get closer to God.

I have gathered a few snippets from each podcast. Today I wanted to talk about one of those snippets.

“See yourself the way God sees you.”

How does God see you, as his child? You are loved, whether you think that or not. God wants you to live a Godly life and see yourself as that. Your life is a blessing and you should treat is as so.

I have been seeing a bunch of motivational speakers say this, “there is a 1 and trillion chance of you being born” or something like that.

Sit back and reflect. You being here, on at this time, on this earth is not coincidence. You have a higher purpose. See yourself the way God sees you.

Whenever you feel down or hopeless, try to remember that God wants more for you than you may feel. You just need to trust in him and in yourself.

We are God’s children and should act as so. See ourselves as this.

I just wanted to give you a little background about my spirituality. I was baptized in a Catholic church as a baby. I was raised in a Evangelist Christian household after my baptism. I didn’t end up getting the rest of my sacraments.

I have always believe in God. I was always a spiritual person. The only thing I didn’t do was go to church after I had the choice because I was forced to go and to sing in front of a bunch of people as a kid.

I wanted to find God in my way, by my own conviction. I will always believe in God in this way.

I don’t have to go to church but recently as my life has progressed, I have made it a habit to go to a Catholic church with my soon to be husband at least every Sunday.

It’s something we both enjoy doing together, being with the Lord united, as one. We are taught lessons and we reflect and talking about this after we have lunch.

So these are just thoughts and remember, see yourself the way God sees you.

Bride Diet? Nutrition 101 for Brides to Be

Instead of going on a diet to look fit on your wedding day, try incorporating lifestyle changes.

Start with something simple, that can be done daily. Some examples:

  1. Drink at least half your body weight in ounces of water – Surprisingly a high percentage of women that I work with don’t drink enough water. They forget about it and only drink water when they feel thirsty. Usually when you feel thirsty, you’re already dehydrated. So bride to be, up your water intake. Super simple.
  2. Limit liquid calories – We tend to forget that sodas and juices have calories too. Start by cutting down some of these drinks and replacing them with water. Gradually build yourself up to only drinking water. You can have a diet soda or drink here and there since they are usually lower in calories.
  3. Pick a meal and eat a cup of vegetables before that meal – For example, before you eat dinner, eat a cup of vegetables. This will allow you to get your vitamins, minerals and fiber in. This also allows your stomach to signal your brain that you are getting full. Your stomach can take up to 20 minutes to let you brain know it’s starting to get full.
  4. Eat slowly – Tying back to the previous point, eating slowly will allow your stomach to communicate to your brain that it is getting full. Give your brain some time to catch up.

These are a few nutrition hacks you can use to start to do to look amazing on your wedding day but also create a healthy lifestyle.

-Your Bridal Fitness Coach


Less than 170 days to go…

As a bride I know how stressful it can be to lose weight. I know I wanted to get super fit for my wedding. I just didn’t know where to start without adding anymore additional stress to my life.

Wedding planning is so freaking stressful. Making sure you put down deposits, get together with h2b to meet vendors, licking a bunch of envelopes, gathering addresses from family and friends and the LIST GOES ON!

I know I wanted to be fit for my wedding. I have been in the fitness industry for over 7 years but adding wedding planning and running your own business is whole different monster.

How was I going to do this? Looking fit for my wedding was really important so I educated myself in behavior and habits to get to where I am now. 

I have lost over 20 lbs and counting in less than a year for my wedding because of a few things I did in my routine. 

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why weight fluctuates
Hey there! Are you one those people who weighs yourself constantly and the scale just keeps giving you all these different numbers every time you check your weight?
Are you constantly checking your weight?
Are you obsessed with weighing yourself?

Well then, keep on reading.

Key points:

  • Glycogen plays a a large role in short-term weight fluctuations.
  • Going on and off low-carb diets can cause big changes in glycogen levels.
  • It takes a few days for body weight to stabilize after any major shift in diet or exercise (

Story time: Your best friend reads an article about a super low carb and implements it. She is down 2 dress sizes. She is convinced that carbs are evil. She eats less than 50 grams a day, and she drops eight pounds in two days. It seems she’s found the secret to weight loss!

But there’s a catch: if she believes this is true, then just looking at an Olive Garden bread stick will make her gain the weight back.

Your best friend is doing great and sticks to the plan for six whole days, but on the seventh day, she goes out to dinner with her friends. The waiter tempts her with a unlimited bread sticks, and she ends up giving in.

So what happens next? She weighs herself the next morning, and she’s 3 lbs heavier! That’s one pound for each piece of bread stick she ate.

I have lost count of how many of my clients have stepped on a scale after being on a low carb diet then going all out one night and weigh themselves the next morning and have gained 5 lbs.

So what is really happening? Can you really gain and lose so much weight in so little time?

The Problem With The Scale

Your weight will fluctuate throughout the day and this is why.

Salt and water

Has this ever happened to you? You go out Friday night and have dinner at restaurant (lots of sodium) and the next day you wake up, weigh yourself and weight 5 lbs more.

So you freak out but then you realize that:

  • Your digestive system hasn’t had time to process the junk food you ate last night.
  • Since most restaurants contain foods with high amounts of salt, your body retains water to keep your electrolytes in balance.

Eventually your body with sort itself out and you will go back to your normal self. The excess water is only temporary.

Glycogen and fluid

Each gram of glycogen—the stored carbohydrates in the muscles and liver—is accompanied by three to four grams of water. If you make an extreme cut in the carbs you eat, your body will store less glycogen and your muscles will also hold less water.

This will in turn cause you lose weight. It depends on how many carbs you cut. Remember if you cut 50% of your carbs, then water in your muscles will also decrease to 3 to 4 times that amount and voila less weight.

Mid-day fluctuations

Your weight will fluctuate throughout the day based off your sodium intake, how much water your drinking, and the food that you eat. Remember that.

Takeaway: The only way to know whether your new nutrition is working is to be consistent and patient. Consistent with weighing, consistent with carb intake, consistent with workouts, and patient enough to see meaningful results. (




  1. Ask the big questions first – Where do you want to go in life? What direction do you want to go? What’s the farthest you can imagine going? Once you answer these questions it will get you started in the path of intentional growth. “The best you can hope to do in life is to make the most out of whatever you’ve been given.” Invest in yourself and be the best you can be.
  2. DO IT NOW! – The biggest mistake you can make is making intentional growth last in your priority list. Do something today that is going to get your closer to your goals.
  3. Face the fear factor – We all have fear. But here’s the good news. We also all have faith.” Which emotion are you going to allow to be stronger? The answer to this question is important. Feed your faith and starve your fear.
  4. Change from incidental to intentional growth – People tend to just go with the flow in life. If they learn something, it’s by accident. They just go with the flow even if it’s leading them in the wrong direction. After a while, people just get by. Don’t allow this to be your life. If you truly want to reach your potential you need to be intentional with your growth. You must go out of your way to find opportunities that will allow you to grow as a person. You have to go after what you want!

Are you intentionally growing?

  • Take a look at your calendar for the next 12 months. How much time have you scheduled for personal growth? More than likely your answer is none. Add personal growth to your calendar every day for 5 days a week. If you really want to succeed in life you need to do whatever it takes.
  • Start now! Make a commitment to start growing today.

Check out this book to get started: How Successful People Grow


If you haven’t already read John C. Maxwell’s “How Successful People Grow” go get the book now! It’s a short read.

In his book he talks about 8 gaps that will not allow you to grow.

  1. The Assumption Gap – “I Assume That I Will Automatically Grow” – When we are kids our bodies automatically grow. For some reason, it seems people subconsciously believe that their mental, spiritual and emotional growth work the same way. This is far from true. Personal growth doesn’t just happen. “If you want your life to improve, you must improve yourself”.
  2. The Knowledge Gap – “I Don’t Know How To Grow”  – Many people seem to like to learn the “hard way”. Instead of learning this, decided what you want to learn. Choose what you want to learn. What do you want to do? Who do you want to be? Make a list of the things that will help become that person. If there is something you can do in that list now, go do it! When you start working towards who you want to be, you will find that doors will start opening for you. More opportunities open up.
  3. The Timing Gap – “It’s not the right time to begin” – Whether you are ready or not, NOW is the time. Even if you don’t FEEL like it. If you don’t get started you will never grow.
  4. The Mistake Gap – “I’m Afraid of Making Mistakes” – Growing can be messy and you will make a ton of mistakes along the way. People don’t enjoy making mistakes but it’s part of growing. Mistakes need to be taken as a growing opportunity and not something that is negative. Your attitude needs to change. “A mistake is simply another way of doing things” – Warren Bennis. You have to expect mistakes and see them as a sign that you are moving in the right direction.
  5. The Perfection Gap – “I Have to Find the Best Way Before I Start” – Many people will wait a lifetime to do anything because they are waiting for the “perfect” moment to get started. If you sit around and wait for the “perfect” moment you will never get anywhere. You will be stuck. If you start slowly and progressively you will find that more the your future is revealed as you go. So, don’t wait for the “perfect” moment. JUST GET STARTED.
  6. The Inspiration Gap – “I Don’t Feel Like Doing It” – Even if you don’t feel inspired to start working on yourself, the benefits outweigh the reasons to not start growing. You will start seeing results IF you stick with it long enough. Make it a goal to stick to personal growth for 12 months. After 12 months look back and see how far you’ve come.
  7. The Comparison Gap – “Other Are Better Than I Am” – There will always be others who know a little bit more about you. This is great! You know why? Because you can reach out to these people and learn from them. There will always be someone who knows more than you, the thing is not comparing yourself to them. They took time to learn what they and so will you. Don’t be discouraged, continue learning and you will be just fine!
  8. The Expectation Gap – ” I Thought It Would Be Easier Than This” – I can’t think of a successful person who thinks that growth comes quickly and climbing to the top is easy. It just does not happen. Here is the formula:

Preparation (growth) + Attitude + Opportunity + Action (doing something about it) = Luck

It all starts with preparation.


reasons people fall off the fitness wagon

Did you start working out and fell off? In this video you will find 5 reasons people quit and what can be done to solve these reasons!

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Personal training can cost $50-$200 an hr for 30-50 mins.

To have the best results, you would probably have to meet with a personal trainer 3-5x a week.

So if you meet with a personal trainer in person 3x a week it can cost you $600-$2,400 a month.

The reason I am an online trainer is because I found that I can deliver a whole lot more value in a shorter amount of time, more holistically, for people at a lower price. Not to mention saving time and gas money.

If you are interested in online personal training and think this is something that will work for you check out my online personal training and coaching packages:

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my fitness story

Hello everyone,

I wanted to tell you a little bit about myself, my story and why I started Ruthless Physique. Check out the video below! For online coaching click here!




diet vs. nutrition

In this week’s post we talk about diet vs. nutrition.

Nutrition planning accounts for 85%-90% of the results of any fitness program.

This is why it’s important you understand what you are getting in your meal plan from me. The point is not to view a meal plan as a temporary diet focused on “restricting” yourself to reach a short term goal, the goal is to understand what true nutrition is and how it can help you make better choices for the rest of your life.

A lot of people misconstrue the word “diet”. A diet is purely the description of the food that you eat. However, a more modern use of the word defines a limitation of what you can eat. This is not the case in my meal plans.

When you think of actual nutrition, you need to understand that it doesn’t mean restricting what you eat. It’s about creating a food plan to help support your physical goals which can include health, strength, independence, more energy and managing your weight.

When I provide a meal plan, it is to understand what actual nutrition is vs. just a “diet.

There are 5 components you need to focus on to be effective in your nutrition:

  1. Balance – this just means getting the right type of food in and limiting foods that can have a negative effect in your health.
  2. Calorie control – this challenge isn’t just about reducing calories. You have to make sure you have the right amount of calories throughout the day to keep your body working effectively.
  3. Moderation – You can cheat but in moderation and not in excess amounts that will have a negative impact in your healthy.
  4. Variety – If you have variety in your foods, such as dark leafy greens, red or orange veggies it ensures you get the vitamins and minerals you need to be healthy. Having variety helps you not get bored with the same foods.
  5. Adequacy – meaning you are getting all the vitamins and minerals you need to maintain your healthy but also making sure to replace what is lost on a daily or weekly basis.

When I provide a meal plans, they built on the foundation of these 5 principles. When in doubt, focus on these 5 principles to help you make better decisions about your health.

When you thought about diets or dieting did you see it as bad and restrictive?

Do you think these 5 components will make it easier for you to stay on track with your nutrition?

If you are interested in a meal that with complement your fitness goals, check out the support I offer to reach those goals faster: Meal Plan